Music Night

Last Saturday,

we had a date in school.

The school are having music concert at night.

So me n her went there n watch together.

It's not a perfect night,

and it's also not a smooth night.

We had an argue.

This time,

I gone mad...

I burst all my thoughts to her.

It's a hard night.

After talking with my bro last night.

I made a conclusion to myself.

1st case,

Ya, we used to use wrong words every time.

common mistake huh?

Some times I wrong, some times u wrong.

Fair isnt it?

But nvm, as long as we realize wad we did wrong,

change the bad habits, then can already.

It takes time to change,man man lai..

2nd case,

This question very hot one.

Where many couples do have this kind of problem.

There are many version of conversation abt this problem.

The most common one is something like this,

Boy : "Can't u just give me a hug/kisses/hold hand & etc etc...??

Girl : "U love my body or love my heart??"

No matter how a boy explain,

at the end also no settle.

The conclusion from a girl is,

"It is not compulsory to do such thing..."

Boy started to feel unhappy from what the girl said..

Because of that, the girl did wad the boy wan.

She dont wan the boy to be unhappy.

When this problem goes on,

it feels like,

the boy wan wad, the girl must satisfy them.

Girls do feel like that..

This will causes the girl cannot tahan.

And no good ending.

Until here,

I believe most of the girl will clap their hands.

MOST of the girl think that way isn't it?

Okay, now I wanna share about what I think.

My question now,

"What girl needs from their beloved?"

Answer?

(mostly is accompany, care n love, tam tam those)

that's what a boy should do..

Next,

"What boy needs from their beloved?"

My answer : Not ur body.

Girl : "But why u wan me to do it? Thats why I said not compulsory..."

This one I need to explain...

This situation are just like,

Girl play barbie doll, Boy are trying to like it, mix with it, play it...

So the girl feel happy...

But boy play Digimon, Girl dont like to play it,

but because girl dont wan boy to feel unhappy for not accompany him.

Girl are "forced" to play with them.

Why I use toys?

Im just giving example only.

It's the way of how we get satisfaction from each other...

Something like that la.

I dont want to explain it long.

So think abt it...

About me n her,

I just dont wan we both become like that.

Later we both become like forcing each other to do like that.

Like that also not call love jor.

Just, be back our ownself.

We need to understand each other well.

Dont just keep stick on own principal n thoughts.

Like that, we hardly get understand each other.